Widowers often ask Abel what they should do, if anything, to honor their late wife on their date of death. Women dating widowers often ask what their place is in a day that can be emotional for everyone. In this video, Abel Keogh shares what he did on November 10, 2018--the 17th anniversary of his late wife's death. He shares this as a guide for what other widows and widowers can do to in hopes that it make make these anniversaries less painful and more fulfilling.
Should Widows and Widowers Date Each Other?
With all the problems women experience dating widowers, many have asked whether widows and widowers are more suited for each other. In this Widower Wednesday video, Abel Keogh discusses whether widows and widowers should date each other and what they both need to do if their relationship is going to succeed.
What Does a Widower Mean when He Says, Part II
Sometimes widowers say the darndest things. Knowing what they're really saying can be difficult. But with a little widower psychology 101 you can know what a widower is really saying. In this video, Abel Keogh gives you the tools you need to interpret the following statements:
"I don't want to get married again."
"I don't want to erase the late wife from the house."
"I want to take things slow."
"Moving on is very emotional for me."
And more!
Widower Wednesday: What Does a Widower Mean when he Says, Part 1
Sometimes widowers say the darndest things. Knowing what they're really saying can be difficult. But with a little widower psychology 101 you can know what a widower is really saying. In this video, Abel Keogh gives you the tools you need to interpret the following statements:
"I love you."
"I'm still grieving"
"I see a future, I'm just not ready yet."
"I'd tell friends and family about you but I don't want to hurt them."
And more!
Widower Wednesday: Where Should the Widower Bury His Second Wife?
Often widowers have double headstones or burial plots next to the late wife's grave. The question then arises where should the second wife be buried? With the widower and his late wife? Somewhere else? What if she wants the widower and her buried elsewhere? In this video, Abel Keogh walks wives and girlfriends of widowers through options and discuss the best way to come up with a solution that can please everyone.
Life is a Matter of Learning to Live with Monsters
Widower Wednesday: What's the Best Way for Widowers to tell Friends and Family They're Dating Again?
For widowers telling friends and family that they're dating after losing a spouse is difficult. They're worried about the reaction of those they love and whether their new love will be accepted. Yet hearing that news from widowers is a lot better than finding it out from others or learning the truth on their own.
In this video Abel Keogh tells stories of the mistakes he made when letting family and friends know he was dating again as well as tips that can make breaking the news easier to those widowers care about so they no longer have to keep their new love a secret.
All Crises Are Potential Hero's Journey
Widower Wednesday: Help! I Think my Widower is Cheating on Me? What Should I do?
In this edition of Widower Wednesday, Abel addresses the following 3 questions:
What does it mean if a widower asks a woman what her long-term relationship goals are?
What to do with teenage kids who no longer want to participate in yearly remembrance rituals.
What should I do if I think my widower is cheating on me with an "old friend"?
Abel answers all of these questions while guiding you through some insightful Widower psychology so you can better understand how widowers think and their motivations behind their actions.
Widower Wednesday: How to Win Over the Widower's Friends and Family
Not everyone is excited when a widower starts dating again. There's usually at least one person who will shun you at family gatherings, bring up the late wife during conversations, or does his or her best to drive a wedge between the widower and yourself. What's the best way to deal with these kind of people? In this video, Abel Keogh talks about why people act this way as well as 3 things you can do to break down barriers. It's a must watch for anyone who has friends or family who aren't happy that the widower has found love again.