Widowers often ask Abel what they should do, if anything, to honor their late wife on their date of death. Women dating widowers often ask what their place is in a day that can be emotional for everyone. In this video, Abel Keogh shares what he did on November 10, 2018--the 17th anniversary of his late wife's death. He shares this as a guide for what other widows and widowers can do to in hopes that it make make these anniversaries less painful and more fulfilling.