After getting in a serious relationship with a new woman, one thing widowers struggle with is prioritizing existing relationships with friends, loved ones, and the late wife's family. Often the new woman feels like number two because existing relationships constantly take priority over spending time together. In this video Abel talks about why relationships need to be prioritized after a widower becomes exclusive, the best way to do that, and why trying to make everyone happy never ultimately leads to the new relationship coming to an end.
Help! I'm not the Love of My Widower's Life!
Many women who date widowers struggle with the knowledge that a small part of a widower's heart is reserved for the late wife. As a result, they feel they will never be the true love of the widower's life. In this video Abel Keogh gives you a different perspective on a widower's heart and how you can be certain that you occupy the #1 space in his heart.
One-on-One Video Coaching Sessions Now Availalbe
I’ve got some good news to share with everyone. Starting today, those who schedule a coaching session will have the option of choosing video coaching session through Zoom or a phone call. Before today phone calls were the only option. Over the last month I've tested out a couple of face-to-face video coaching sessions and it's been a great experience for those who have participated. Whatever method you prefer, coaching sessions are a great way to talk one-on-one about your specific situation and get your most pressing relationship questions answered. You can see my appointment openings and schedule a session here.
How Did Joe Biden Open His Heart to Jill After He was Widowed?
A month after his election to the United States Senate, Joe Biden lost is wife, Neilia, and daughter Naomi in a tragic car accident. In this little known chapter about Biden’s life, you’ll see the important decisions he had to make in order to start a new chapter in his life with another woman. Biden’s story is a great example of what widowers have to do in order to move forward and open their heart to new love.
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Audiobook of The Ultimate Dating Guide for Widowers now Available
The audiobook version of The Ultimate Dating Guide for Widowers is now available! Drawing on the success stories and learning experiences of Joe Biden, Thomas Edison, Pierce Brosnan, and Paul McCartney, this book specifically addresses questions, concerns, and needs of widowers. It’s also a great resource for women who want to know what it really takes for a widower to open his heart.
Narrated by me, the audiobook is only $6.95 making it less expensive than the paperback version. The audiobook is perfect for those who want this vital dating information but don’t have the time to read. The Ultimate Dating Guide for Widowers is available exclusively at Audible, Amazon, and iTunes. Get your copy today at the links below.
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Should Widowers Attend Public Events that Honor the Late Wife?
After a widower is in a serious relationship is appropriate for him to attend fundraisers and other public events that honor the late wife's memory? If he attends, is it a sign he's not ready to open his heart to someone else? In this video, Abel Keogh gives guidance for those who are struggling with these questions.
What Should the Widower Call the Former In-Laws?
Once the late wife dies, the late wife's family are technically no longer his in-laws. So what's the best way for widowers to refer to her surviving family without causing offence to them or the woman the widower is dating? As Abel Keogh explains, the answer is a lot simpler than you think.
Audiobook Coming Soon
Good news. I’ve successfully narrated one of my relationship guides. Audiobook coming out next month. Stay tuned for details.
Widowers and Mother's Day
Mother's Day can be a hard for widowers and new woman in their life--especially if there are minor children living at home. What are an appropriate Mother's Day activities for the widower to participate in? What should the woman do if she feels pressured to participate in such activities but doesn't want to go? Is there a place to honor the new woman as a mother or step-mother?
In this video, Abel Keogh reads an email from a woman who feels pressure to visit the late wife grave on Mother's Day. He also imparts three important pieces of advice that will make Mother's Day go smoother for the widower, women dating them, and the widower's children.
It’s Time to Share Your Story in Dating a Widower 2.0
Good news! The second edition of Dating a Widower is just about done and I’m looking to add stories from women who are or who have dated widowers.
And one of the stories could be yours.
While I’ll consider any story that’s submitted, subjects that will give your story a leg up on making the new edition of Dating a Widower include:
Experiences dating widower soon after his wife passed away
What happened when you set healthy boundaries with a widower
Dating a widower with red flags
How you lost or rebuilt confidence when dating a widower
Regrets about not setting boundaries in the bedroom
How you handled the widower celebrating special occasions like the late wife’s birthday or her date of death
How you dealt with the end of a relationship with a widower
Your stories can have happy or heartbreaking endings, they can make the reader laugh, cry, or ponder their own relationship. I just want to you share stories from the heart.
If you’re want to share your story, email them to me no later than May 19, 2019. Stories should be no longer than 750 words.
Questions about sharing your story? Leave them in the comments below.
If you don’t want to share your story at this time, that’s fine. I’ll be updating my other relationship guides soon and maybe one of them would be a better fit.