Widower Wednesday: Dating a Widower with Kids, Part II

Dating a widower comes with a unique set of challenges. Some of these challenges come from the widower's minor children (defined as under 18 and living at home). In the second of a three part series, Abel Keogh discusses the following issues related to a widower’s minor children:

• What to do if the widower’s kids feel like they’re being demoted by you
• How to take on the role of “mom” without alienating the widower’s children
• Communication strategies for your and the widower when discussing changes with his kids

Part III will be posted next week.

Widower Wednesday: Dating a Widower with Kids, Part I

Dating a widower comes with a unique set of challenges. Some of these challenges come from the widower's minor children (defined as under 18 and living at home). In the first of a three part series, Abel Keogh discusses the following issues related to a widower’s minor children:

• When's the optimal time to meet the widower's children?
• Is it a red flag if the widower feels guilt for dating and not being with his kids?
• The best way to deal with minor children who constantly misbehave and won't respect boundaries.

Part II will be posted next week.

Widower Wednesday: The Best Way to Handle Torchbearers (or Those Who Can’t Shut Up about the Late Wife)

Torchbearers. It seems like there’s always at least one person who constantly talks about the late wife or floods social media with photos and memories of the late wife. While dating a widower can be hard enough, torchbearers can ruin even the strongest relationships. In this video, Abel Keogh discusses ways both the widower and the woman he’s dating can effectively deal with those who choose to live in the past instead of living in the present.

Widower Wednesday: How Being Insecure will Sabotage Your Relationship with a Widower

Most issues that come with dating a widower stem from the fact that the widower is still grieving and not ready to form a solid relationship. However, there are things women do that turn the widower off to wanting to take the relationship further. In this video Abel discusses widower psychology 101 and some simple you can do and behaviors to avoid when you are dating a widower.

Widower Wednesday: Should I ask a Widower Out on a Date?

Many women meet a widower at work, school, or church. As they get to know each other better, they may exchange flirtatious banter or the widower may behave in ways that makes the woman think he's interested in her. However, he won't take the step of asking her out for coffee or a more formal date. The question then arises whether YOU should ask the widower out. In this video I'll explain why asking a widower out could harm your future relationship—even if the widower wants to date you.

Widower Wednesday: What Should You Do When a Widower Breaks Up with You?

Unfortunately, most relationships with a widower come to an end. Some times the woman initiates the break up but more often than not, it's the the widower who ends things. If you're widower has ended the relationship, this video will help you understand what he's thinking, the best way to get over the heartache, and whether or not you should get back together if he wants a second chance.

Widower Wednesday: What Kind of Relationship Should the Widower have with the Late Wife's Family?

One of the bigger issues when dating a widower is what should be his relationship with his late wife's parents. How much time should he spend with them? What should be his relationship with them after we get married? What should I or he do if they don't like me? While there are no clear answers on this subject, this Widower Wednesday video gives you the guidance both you and the widower need to make the best decision for your relationship.

Widower Wednesday: What Should the Widower do with the Late Wife's Stuff?

Whether you're discussing marriage or moving in together, usually the widower has a house full of things that reflect the taste of the late wife. The questions about what to do with the stuff and how to convince the widower to get rid of all or most of it has vexed women for ages. This video will give you the tips and tricks you need to make his home a place that you can both feel comfortable and start a new life together.

Widower Wednesday Video: Red Flags to Watch for When Dating a Widower

How can you know if the widower you're dating is ready to move on? In this video, I go over 5 big red flags you should watch for when dating a widower.

Widower Wednesday Video: The Anniversary of the Late Wife's Death is Approaching. What Should I do?

One of the landmines women dating widowers have to navigate is the anniversary of the late wife's death. What, if anything should they say or do? How should they act. Thankfully, this video will answer all your questions so you can navigate the day with less stress and also know if the widower is ready to move on.