Widower Wednesday: What Should You Do When a Widower Breaks Up with You?

Unfortunately, most relationships with a widower come to an end. Some times the woman initiates the break up but more often than not, it's the the widower who ends things. If you're widower has ended the relationship, this video will help you understand what he's thinking, the best way to get over the heartache, and whether or not you should get back together if he wants a second chance.

Widower Wednesday: What Kind of Relationship Should the Widower have with the Late Wife's Family?

One of the bigger issues when dating a widower is what should be his relationship with his late wife's parents. How much time should he spend with them? What should be his relationship with them after we get married? What should I or he do if they don't like me? While there are no clear answers on this subject, this Widower Wednesday video gives you the guidance both you and the widower need to make the best decision for your relationship.

Widower Wednesday: What Should the Widower do with the Late Wife's Stuff?

Whether you're discussing marriage or moving in together, usually the widower has a house full of things that reflect the taste of the late wife. The questions about what to do with the stuff and how to convince the widower to get rid of all or most of it has vexed women for ages. This video will give you the tips and tricks you need to make his home a place that you can both feel comfortable and start a new life together.

Widower Wednesday Video: Red Flags to Watch for When Dating a Widower

How can you know if the widower you're dating is ready to move on? In this video, I go over 5 big red flags you should watch for when dating a widower.

How can you know if the widower you're dating is ready to move on? In this video, Abel Keogh, author of Dating a Widower, goes over 5 big red flags you should watch for when dating a widower.

Widower Wednesday Video: The Anniversary of the Late Wife's Death is Approaching. What Should I do?

One of the landmines women dating widowers have to navigate is the anniversary of the late wife's death. What, if anything should they say or do? How should they act. Thankfully, this video will answer all your questions so you can navigate the day with less stress and also know if the widower is ready to move on.

One of the landmines women dating widowers have to navigate is the anniversary of the late wife's death. What, if anything should they say or do? How should they act. Thankfully, this video will answer all your questions so you can navigate the day with less stress and also know if the widower is ready to move on.

My Widower's Kids Don't Want to Spend the Holidays with Me

A viewer asks: My widower has three grown, adult children who don’t approve of me or the fact that the widower is in a relationship soon after the death of their mother. They've told the widower they don't want me around for the holidays. What should I do?

My widower has three grown, adult children who don't approve of me or the fact that the widower is in a relationship soon after the death of their mother. They've told the widower they don't want me around for the holidays. What should I do?

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Widowers and Holiday Traditions

A viewer asks: The W I’m engaged to is steeped in holiday traditions for he and his kids. Between the two holidays lots of other activities and parties he wants to attend, I feel that there’s no time for us to make our own memories. What can I say or suggest to make the holidays a special time for both of us?

The W I'm engaged to is steeped in holiday traditions for he and his kids. Between the two holidays lots of other activities and parties he wants to attend, I feel that there's no time for us to make our own memories.

Help! The Late Wife's Decorations are Everywhere During the Holidays.

A viewer asks: My widower puts up the late wife's decorations during the holidays. This saps the holiday spirit and makes his home a place I don't want to be. Is there anything I can do to get him to put up something new?

A viewer asks: My widower puts up the late wife's decorations during the holidays. This saps the holiday spirit and makes his home a place I don't want to be. Is there anything I can do to get him to put up something new?

Widower Wednesday: The Widower Doesn't Want to Spend the Holidays with Me

Posting a couple special holiday edition videos of Widower Wednesday. In the video below, I answer the following question: The widower I'm dating refuses to spend the holidays with me and would rather spend the time with his family or the late wife's family. What can I do to make him want to spend the holidays with me?

A viewer asks: The widower I'm dating refuses to spend the holidays with me and would rather spend the time with his family or the late wife's family. What can I do to make him want to spend the holidays with me?

The 2 Biggest Mistakes Women Make when Dating a Widower (Part 2)

In the second of a 2 part series, I talk about the second big mistake women make when dating a widower. I'll discusses this mistake and what you can do to overcome it and see if the widower is serious about you. Enjoy!