Often those most opposed to the widower's new relationship are his adult children. Sometimes they will do anything to break up the relationship including engaging in manipulative and abusive behavior. What do you do if your adult children start acting this way? Relationship coach and widower expert Abel Keogh has the answer.
Summer Storm: A Poem
Summer Storm
The sky, filled with clouds and smoke,
hides the sun behind its cloak,
the smell of fire, the taste of ash,
an inch of rain falls in a flash.
Small streams swell and rivers flood,
mountains crumble into mud,
the wind roars, great oaks bend,
thunder rumbles, the earth rends.
Suddenly the storm subsides,
we open doors and look outside,
at a world wet and ashen gray,
then send our children out to play.
—Abel Keogh
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Out and About: Capital Reef National Park
Recently had the chance to unwind at Capital Reef National Park. If you’re looking for a beautiful national park that doesn’t have crowds, this is it. Photos from hikes below. Highly recommend for anyone looking to get away from the crazy world for a few days.
I Want Kids, My Widower Doesn't. What Should I Do?
What should you do when you want kids but your the widower you're engaged to doesn't? Check out my 60-second answer below.
Grief Counseling and Widowers
What, if anything, should you do if the widower your dating won't see a grief counselor to help him with his loss? My latest Widower Wednesday video has the answer.
How Long Does It Take Widowers to Emotionally Heal?
A viewer says her widower wants to marry her after he's "emotionally healed" from the death of his late wife? Is he sincere or is this a clever way for widowers to not commit to a relationship? Relationship coach and widower expert Abel Keogh has the answer.
Should a widower keep his late wife's items in a shared closet with his girlfriend?
Should a widower keep his late wife's items in a shared closet with his girlfriend? Check out my 30-second answer below.
How long should you date a widower?
How long should you date a widower before knowing he's not ready to open his heart? Relationship coach and widower expert Abel Keogh answers a question from a woman who's dated a widower 1.5 years and gives clear mileposts of what you should expect a relationship to progress and when to end it.
Read MoreThe Widower I'm Dating Hasn't Told His Kids about Me!
The widower I'm dating hasn't told his kids about me. What should I do?
See my 60 second answer in the video below.
Get off the Grid
Spend 4 days this week off the grid in the High Uintas with my teenage boys. Camped near Ryder Lake, ~10,600 ft. above sea level. High recommend the scenery and getting off the grid. Highly recommend getting a way for a few days to recharge.