Sometimes widowers say the darndest things. Knowing what they're really saying can be difficult. But with a little widower psychology 101 you can know what a widower is really saying. In this video, Abel Keogh gives you the tools you need to interpret the following statements:
"I love you."
"I'm still grieving"
"I see a future, I'm just not ready yet."
"I'd tell friends and family about you but I don't want to hurt them."
And more!
Often widowers have double headstones or burial plots next to the late wife's grave. The question then arises where should the second wife be buried? With the widower and his late wife? Somewhere else? What if she wants the widower and her buried elsewhere? In this video, Abel Keogh walks wives and girlfriends of widowers through options and discuss the best way to come up with a solution that can please everyone.
For widowers telling friends and family that they're dating after losing a spouse is difficult. They're worried about the reaction of those they love and whether their new love will be accepted. Yet hearing that news from widowers is a lot better than finding it out from others or learning the truth on their own.
In this video Abel Keogh tells stories of the mistakes he made when letting family and friends know he was dating again as well as tips that can make breaking the news easier to those widowers care about so they no longer have to keep their new love a secret.
In this edition of Widower Wednesday, Abel addresses the following 3 questions:
What does it mean if a widower asks a woman what her long-term relationship goals are?
What to do with teenage kids who no longer want to participate in yearly remembrance rituals.
What should I do if I think my widower is cheating on me with an "old friend"?
Abel answers all of these questions while guiding you through some insightful Widower psychology so you can better understand how widowers think and their motivations behind their actions.
Not everyone is excited when a widower starts dating again. There's usually at least one person who will shun you at family gatherings, bring up the late wife during conversations, or does his or her best to drive a wedge between the widower and yourself. What's the best way to deal with these kind of people? In this video, Abel Keogh talks about why people act this way as well as 3 things you can do to break down barriers. It's a must watch for anyone who has friends or family who aren't happy that the widower has found love again.
When widower-related problems arise, talking to a widower is vital to solving the issue and knowing whether or not he's ready to move on. But talking to a widower in a way that can express your concerns without coming across as jealous, needy, or nagging can take some work. In this video, Abel Keogh shows you the best ways to talk to a widower about problems that are hindering your relationship so the next time issues arise, you can talk about them with confidence and in such a way the widower is more likely to listen and act.
It's common for widowers to start dating months, weeks, or even days after their wife dies. Why do they do this? Does it mean they didn't love their late wife or had a bad marriage? The truth is a lot more complex. In this video Abel Keogh guides you through widower psychology 101 so you can better understand why widowers date so soon and how you can tell if the recent widower you're dating is ready to move on or just looking to fill a hole in his heart.
The widower you're in a relationship with wants to get a memorial tattoo. Is that a good idea? In this video, Abel Keogh discusses why widowers want memorial tattoos after they're in a serious relationship with a new woman. He'll also discuss strategies to help the two of you talk through the issues so you can both decide if a memorial tattoo is something that would hurt or help your relationship. This is the perfect video for wives and girlfriends of widowers who want a tattoo as well as those widower who are considering getting one of the late wife.
Because dating a widower comes with a host of unique challenges, often women who are dating them focus on widower-related issues and overlook six important areas of compatibility. In this second of a two-part series Abel Keogh discusses the second three areas of compatibility you need to consider before you decide to spend the rest of your life with a widower.
Because dating a widower comes with a host of unique challenges, often women who are dating them focus on widower-related issues and overlook six important areas of compatibility. In this first of a two-part series Abel Keogh discusses the first three areas of compatibility you need to consider before you decide to spend the rest of your life with a widower.