Many women meet a widower at work, school, or church. As they get to know each other better, they may exchange flirtatious banter or the widower may behave in ways that makes the woman think he's interested in her. However, he won't take the step of asking her out for coffee or a more formal date. The question then arises whether YOU should ask the widower out. In this video I'll explain why asking a widower out could harm your future relationship—even if the widower wants to date you.